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she remembers

What if your hands could touch you better than any lover?

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she remembers

What if your hands could touch you better than any lover?

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You've already made a vow that the toxic patterns end with you.

 

You've done the therapy, the yoga, the meditation, the plant medicines. You can name your wounds, trace them back to your mother, your father, every past lover.

And yet you find yourself rewriting the same patterns in love and pleasure. Shutting down in conflict. Saying yes when your body is screaming no.

Performing pleasure you don't fully feel — or chasing it desperately in the arms of someone else — hungry for the aliveness you haven't yet found inside yourself.

You have the awareness. And it's still happening.

You grab the vibrator for a quickie. Rushing your own self-touch because the intimacy feels too confronting. Or refusing to go there altogether.

The change doesn’t live in your understanding. It lives in your flesh. In the parts you were taught to abandon, avoid, rush past, and shame. 

Bookmarked in your body, nestled right next to unseen pain — all of you is waiting to be read.

And now you feel ready to become fluent in the language of your body…

Your Capacity To Love Is Ferocious.

  

You have a big heart, big feelings, and even bigger visions of what you want to birth into this world. You are devoted to your growth — spiritually curious and always seeking expansion.

And yet somehow your own pleasure always ends up last on your list. You swing between giving everything and having nothing left — depleted, dry, running on empty.

You are done abandoning yourself.

Done rushing through your own touch like it is something to survive. Done waiting for someone to see you. Choose you. Hold you.

You want to feel alive again. Full. Sensual. Whole. Resourced from the inside.

You are ready to go somewhere a partner cannot take you. To discover that your own hands can touch you better than any lover — and guide you deeper than you have ever gone.

Down into a body that remembers everything — your pleasure, your pain, your ancestry, your raw truth.

To meet yourself unedited. To make slow, sacred love to yourself. To fall madly in love with your own body and erotic nature.

Not as a consolation for not having a partner. Or wanting to please one.

As the foundation from which everything else — including conscious love — becomes possible.

Your Capacity To Love Is Ferocious.

  

You have a big heart, big feelings, and even bigger visions of what you want to birth into this world. You are devoted to your growth — spiritually curious and always seeking expansion.

And yet somehow your own pleasure always ends up last on your list. You swing between giving everything and having nothing left — depleted, dry, running on empty.

You are done abandoning yourself.

Done rushing through your own touch like it is something to survive. Done waiting for someone to see you. Choose you. Hold you.

You want to feel alive again. Full. Sensual. Whole. Resourced from the inside.

You are ready to go somewhere a partner cannot take you. To discover that your own hands can touch you better than any lover — and guide you deeper than you have ever gone.

Down into a body that remembers everything — your pleasure, your pain, your ancestry, your raw truth.

To meet yourself unedited. To make slow, sacred love to yourself. To fall madly in love with your own body and erotic nature.

Not as a consolation for not having a partner. Or wanting to please one.

As the foundation from which everything else — including conscious love — becomes possible.

 

she remembers

A self-pleasure program for the woman ready to say — yes —to her body, her pleasure, and the love already living within her.   
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she remembers

A self-pleasure program for the woman ready to say — yes —to her body, her pleasure, and the love already living within her.   
Apply Now

Let pleasure be the doorway in...

Into the body you have been avoiding. The emotions you have buried. The desires you have silenced. The boundaries you have struggled to voice. The parts of you that learned love meant abandoning yourself.

Inside She Remembers you will build an intimate, devoted relationship with your body — through self-pleasure — so you can stop searching outside yourself for what your body has been waiting to give you.

And truly mean it — for the first time — when you say: I love myself.

Let pleasure be the doorway in...

Into the body you have been avoiding. The emotions you have buried. The desires you have silenced. The boundaries you have struggled to voice. The parts of you that learned love meant abandoning yourself.

Inside She Remembers you will build an intimate, devoted relationship with your body — through self-pleasure — so you can stop searching outside yourself for what your body has been waiting to give you.

And truly mean it — for the first time — when you say: I love myself.

What Is Included?

She Remembers is a 12-week hands-on somatic program designed to guide women back into their bodies through self-pleasure. To feel more sensual, alive, embodied — and fall madly in love with themselves. 

Private & Group Coaching Sessions

 12 total zoom calls guided by Shauntel over the course of 3 months. A combination of (9) private, trauma-informed sessions guided at your pace through the emotional, somatic, and relational themes arising in your body — and (3) group rituals and ceremonies to connect in sisterhood. So you have personalized guidance at every step — not another teaching to translate into your real life by yourself.

Online Learning Portal

Lifetime access to audios, video teachings, workbooks, journal prompts, and integration practices — organized by the six phases of your journey so you always know where you are and what comes next. The portal is your between-session support — a place to deepen, integrate, and return to the tools whenever your body needs them.

Self-Pleasure Practices

Body mapping, self-pleasure rituals, nervous system tools, and other somatic practices to help you listen to your body with safety, consent, and presence. These practices are never sexually performative — they are always self-led, exploratory, and done entirely in the privacy of your own space. So your body becomes a place of communication, not avoidance.

Private Community & Alumni Access

You will be held in a private space with women walking a similar path throughout the program. After you have completed the journey, you will receive three month complimentary access to my alumni community. So the work does not disappear when the container closes — it continues to root into your life.

Guest Experts & Teachers

Guest experts and teachers join to expand the curriculum beyond our weekly work together. Past and potential topics include womb care, herbalism, earth-based feminine traditions, cycle awareness, conscious sexuality, ancestral healing, nervous system tools, and creative expression practices. So your journey is enriched by a diverse range of wisdom.


Personal Body Scripture Collection

Throughout the program you will write, reflect, and create from what your body reveals. By the end you will have your own personal collection of writings, poetry, insights, and remembrance — a record of the woman you came home to. So the transformation becomes something you can hold, return to, and share.

Write a love story with your body.

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*Once you click this button, you’ll be taken directly to the application. You’ll be asked a few questions to see if you’re a good fit and will be given the price of the program. If you're the right fit for [program name], we'll reach out to you within 48 hours and discuss next steps for enrollment.

Write a love story with your body.

Apply Now

*Once you click this button, you’ll be taken directly to the application. You’ll be asked a few questions to see if you’re a good fit and will be given the price of the program. If you're the right fit for [program name], we'll reach out to you within 48 hours and discuss next steps for enrollment.

Kathleen Schaffer: "My favorite thing about this program was learning how to love myself and being able to say I love me. I am amazing, I am great, I am all these things."

 

Jade Robinson:  “I no longer feel overwhelmed in difficult moments because I have tools that bring me back to myself. I’ve tried talking therapy and while it helped in ways, this felt different. In a shorter amount of time, we went deeper. It wasn’t just conversations, it was real and honest. I felt less in my head and more in my body and heart. More than anything, she reminded me of who I am."

Griselle De La Vega: "I have had the pleasure of working in two different group cycles, each one being incredibly transformative. With many life changes and challenges happening at the same time, I needed and craved a safe space to lean into myself. My favorite thing was how accessible and tangible the information and practices are. It's a safe space free of judgment and allows you to show up as you are, meeting you where you are at. She helps plant seeds in yourself and creates sacred devotion that will last a lifetime."

This Journey Is For You If...

 

  • You are ready to explore self-pleasure as a form of shadow work — to transform your relationship patterns and experience deeper pleasure and intimacy with yourself and others.

  • You want to build an intimate, hands-on relationship with your female body — your womb, your breasts, your genitals — and finally meet the tenderness, the ecstasy, the stories living in your flesh.
  • You want to explore your feminine expression through writing, poetry, dance, or song — documenting your reclamation through creativity.
  • You are ready to take full responsibility for your own pleasure, emotions, and healing — and willing to show up for yourself consistently.
  • You are ready to cultivate inner union — becoming your own most devoted lover and building the foundation for conscious love — knowing the work starts with you.

This Is For You If... 

  • You are ready to explore self-pleasure as a form of shadow work — to transform your relationship patterns and experience deeper pleasure and intimacy with yourself and others.

  • You want to build an intimate, hands-on relationship with your female body — your womb, your breasts, your genitals — and finally meet the tenderness, the ecstasy, the stories living in your flesh.
  • You want to explore your feminine expression through writing, poetry, dance, or song — documenting your reclamation through creativity.
  • You are ready to take full responsibility for your own pleasure, emotions, and healing — and willing to show up for yourself consistently.
  • You are ready to cultivate inner union — becoming your own most devoted lover and building the foundation for conscious love — knowing the work starts with you.

I'm Shauntel. Somatic Sexologist. Body Poet. Erotic Guide.

 

I know what it feels like to be a stranger to yourself.

Nobody taught me what it meant to be a woman or how to feel safe in my female body. At a young age I experienced a series of sexual assaults that disconnected me from myself completely — from my pleasure, my desires, my body. I learned early that it was safer not to feel.

That disconnection followed me into adulthood. I lost myself in relationships — replicating what I had witnessed between my parents, abandoning my own needs, silencing my desires, attracting men who didn't know how to truly make love to me. I tried everything — therapy, breathwork, meditation, plant medicine. I became fluent in my own wounds.

And still, all the patterns remained.

It took me a while to understand that the stories writing my love life weren't living in my mind. They were living in my body.

I still remember the first time I dared to make contact with my body again through self-pleasure — without rushing. No vibrator. Just silence, my hands, and whatever was waiting for me there. I hesitated. Trembled. Wept. But this time I could hold the big feelings.

Self-pleasure guided me into my body's stories. Creativity gave them a voice. I wrote what arose, sang what couldn't be spoken. I watched as the beliefs I had carried about love and pleasure began to rewrite themselves from the inside out.

The love I had been searching for everywhere else was already living in my body. And once I came back for it — I remembered. I was made of the love I had been seeking.

This is when She Remembers was born.

I do not guide women with this work from a pedestal but from the body of a woman who had to come back for herself, piece by piece.

I'm Shauntel. Somatic Sexologist. Body Poet. Erotic Guide.

 

I know what it feels like to be a stranger to yourself.

Nobody taught me what it meant to be a woman or how to feel safe in my female body. At a young age I experienced a series of sexual assaults that disconnected me from myself completely — from my pleasure, my desires, my body. I learned early that it was safer not to feel.

That disconnection followed me into adulthood. I lost myself in relationships — replicating what I had witnessed between my parents, abandoning my own needs, silencing my desires, attracting men who didn't know how to truly make love to me. I tried everything — therapy, breathwork, meditation, plant medicine. I became fluent in my own wounds.

And still, all the patterns remained.

It took me a while to understand that the stories writing my love life weren't living in my mind. They were living in my body.

I still remember the first time I dared to make contact with my body again through self-pleasure — without rushing. No vibrator. Just silence, my hands, and whatever was waiting for me there. I hesitated. Trembled. Wept. But this time I could hold the big feelings.

Self-pleasure guided me into my body's stories. Creativity gave them a voice. I wrote what arose, sang what couldn't be spoken. I watched as the beliefs I had carried about love and pleasure began to rewrite themselves from the inside out.

The love I had been searching for everywhere else was already living in my body. And once I came back for it — I remembered. I was made of the love I had been seeking.

This is when She Remembers was born.

I do not guide women with this work from a pedestal but from the body of a woman who had to come back for herself, piece by piece.

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The most holy scripture you will ever read is written in your pulsing flesh.

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The stories you inherited, the shame you absorbed, the love you long for, and the wisdom you keep searching for - they are not outside of you. They are written in the body you were taught to leave behind.

The most holy scripture you will ever read is written in your pulsing flesh.

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The stories you inherited, the shame you absorbed, the love you long for, and the wisdom you keep searching for - they are not outside of you. They are written in the body you were taught to leave behind.

Talia Branger: “I uncovered profound insights, healed parts of myself I long ignored. One of the most powerful moments was exploring the magic of womanhood, our cycles, and the wisdom within our bodies—a reminder of how sacred and powerful we really are. If you feel stuck, disconnected, or ready to reclaim your self worth, this is where your journey begins. I’m forever grateful for this experience and the sisterhood it brought into my life.” 

Harika Kondru: “I always thought I already loved and appreciated myself but I realized that wasn’t true after working with Shauntel. For the first time in a long time, I’m learning how to truly love myself, my mind, my body, and my journey. I feel like I am more connected to myself and see myself, my worth, and embrace my wholeness. I suggest trying coaching with her if therapy is not working for you.”

Frequently Asked Questions

The love you have been seeking has been waiting inside your own body.

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Not in the next partner. Or the one you have. Not in another book, another modality, another conversation about the wound. Not in becoming more healed, more desirable, more ready. Inside the body you have been taught to abandon is the woman you have been trying to become — her pleasure, her voice, her boundaries, her softness, her rage, her grief, her knowing, her love. You are not missing anything. You are just waiting to be remembered. And if you are ready to stop searching outside yourself and begin the most intimate love story of your life — this is your invitation.